Regardless of our gender, relationship pain resulting in trust issues can happen to the best of us.The majority of men can't look past being cheated upon, and an affair is a sure reason for them to end their relationships.As a matchmaker and dating coach, I've even seen men spend over fifteen years alone just to avoid the pain of being cheated on.

Men who have been cheated on need more time to trust again than women.

I’m no psychologist, but the obvious questions I have for you are these: Which, I’m guessing, is not all that different than you, Sharon.

If I had your life experience and sample size, I, too, would come to the conclusion that men are liars and players and not to be trusted.

I have trust issues with men, and it can be very difficult to decipher when my concerns are legitimate or due to my own paranoia. And yet I STILL found out that he was engaged to another woman!

I’m attractive enough to draw a considerable amount of male attention and have enough personality to keep them to develop what I believe to be serious relationships. In my last relationship, I spent 3-4 nights a week at his house for months. And only because he’d forgotten to tuck away his anniversary card.